He says he is too tired to have sex when I want to or he just flat out says “no! Dear Confused & Hurt, First and foremost, any man that lays a hand on a pregnant woman is no respectable man. Getting defensive is a good indication you are not being told the truth.
I can definitely understand your trust issues, especially when you have indicated to him that what he is doing is inappropriate and he is still continuing his in your marriage.
Hi Meredith, I have been with my husband for 12 years, and married for almost 10. A few months after my second one was born, I happened upon a dating site left open on my husband's laptop. We have never had a great sex life because of issues on both sides.
He had not only created a profile but also corresponded with several women looking to have an intimate fling. It's something we have both tried to work on, off and on.
Q: I recently discovered that my husband is on several online dating sites.
I couldn’t trust him around our daughter because his addiction as calls it, was so bad! ”He has been really distant lately, coming home from work and getting directly in the shower.
Start planning for an independent life, because it sure doesn’t sound like this one makes you happy.
But to begin examining your situation, first speak with a counselor.
This online dating problem is just the newest issue and seems like the one that is breaking the camel’s back in this so-called marriage. Pepper Schwartz: Pardon me, but just because you have kids doesn’t mean you can’t leave. If he has a job, he will have to help support you and them.
If he doesn’t earn money and can’t help financially, then take this time to get a full- or part-time job and grow that career you’ve always wanted so you can eventually support yourself and the kids.