On the day of the date, after reservations have been made and his outfit selected, she cancels with a lame excuse and disappears.
In other words, she has a lot of baggage that she will be bringing into your relationship, and that is going to suck big time!
For instance, if you laugh in the same that her ex did, then she may label you as a cheater – just like her ex, and you will have to constantly fight against the label when you shouldn’t have to fight at all.
Also, if she is bitter then she is still focused on her ex.
By forming a rigid shell, a person can avoid experiencing the same pain they’ve felt in the past.
Afterwards she contacts him to say what a great time she had.