Put another way, I see codependence as frequently as, say, Jennifer Lopez sees bronzer when she looks in her makeup bag.(And that’s a lot.) Codependence – which I’ll define in a moment – is one of the biggest problems people have in relationships, and it always leads to a breakup or festering resentment on both sides.Personals are for people local to Helper, UT and are for ages 18 of either sex. Your spouse changed but you couldn’t quite explain the changes in a way that seemed to make sense to anyone else.We haven’t detected security issues or inappropriate content on and thus you can safely use it. COM (United States) and its basic language is English.
On the surface, he acts angry and bothered, and he shuts down or picks fights. He is afraid that her spending time with others will take her away from him – for a few hours in this instance, but potentially forever if she were to meet someone else who replaces him.
When you asked questions, the answers seemed a little too slick, too rehearsed. Maybe your spouse cajoled, or threatened, in a concerted effort to keep you from telling anyone what was happening.
Sometimes your questions hit harder and your spouse reacted with anger or sarcasm, telling you that you’re paranoid. Eventually, your mate told you that it’s over between the two of you. He or she did everything possible to keep you from going to your church leaders, their boss, your family, your in-laws, and maybe even your best friend.
You thought that you were imagining things, being insecure.
Then you began to vacillate, worrying that you must be right but telling yourself that surely you aren’t. Refuse to cooperate and you will find yourself in a bloody legal battle.