Figuring out if a boy liked you in elementary school was easy: You sent him a note saying, "Do you like me?Check yes or no." But out in the adult world, dating men can be much less clear-cut.The hope is that my two young daughters will read it some day, and become immune to these antics. All it takes is a witty remark or flirty jesting to make a girl smile and break down any defensive shields around her heart.This is difficult to accomplish in person, because it requires very quick thinking and perfect timing.Only yesterday, a court heard how a group of women using were allegedly conned out of £220,000 by a gang posing as ‘attractive middle-aged men’.One woman, Suzanne Hardman, was reduced to tears as she recounted how ‘James Richards’ conned her out of £170,000 – her life savings. And there are ways we can all be tricked - even those who think they're clued up about online dating.
You might be thinking that there's a chance you have a real connection.
Still, there are little things his text messages, body language and mannerisms can reveal about his true feelings.
Read, learn, apply—and failing all that, consider sending him that note.
For now, just enjoy your time together and don't concern yourself with whether or not he wants someone better.
Who knows, maybe you're the "better" to someone else he stopped dating.